Understand or Understanding

Perceive the intended meaning of words, language or a speaker

Be sympathetically or knowledgeably aware of the character or the nature of

Both Understand and Understanding is important in relationship.
Otherwise it's called Mis-understand or Mis-understood.

Imagine how and what damage it would be when one is misunderstood; especially done with a good intention but the action was wrongly interpreted.

"They don't understand me."
"You won't believe what they have done to me."
"He/she makes me so angry."
"I want to resign."

Those are familiar words of people who are frustrated. We do not know exactly what they have gone through but one portion is they would done something with good intention but not appreciated or really of need at all.

Reacting to what others say and do will render you helpless.
Many find themselves a victim instead of a victor.

I find one way to overcome is to be at a good attitude and be a proactive person.
Be a person who lead people.
Be a person who solve problems before they arise.

Proactive is an adjective : creating or controlling a situation by causing something to happen rather than responding to it after it has happened.

Proactive sees the invisible instead of focusing the visible.

Our cars are make to look forward of what's coming ahead so that we can avoid mishap.


Application :
Are you proactive or reactive?
Do you normally understand or need to be told?